Okay so I told this guy I was talking to that I thought it was a good idea to just be friends. But now he is ignoring me, can he really be that hurt by this? And another thing about him is we have dated prior to us talking again so does that have anything to do with why he is ignoring me? I just dont want him to hate me,
If a girl I liked said “let’s just be friends.” I’d probably ignore you too. It’s nothing against the other person, I just think of it as a defense mechanism. Like I don’t think there is a way to turn yourself off from liking someone and by still being friends with you and you still talking to him it’s like a constant reminder that the person I like doesn’t like me back for whatever reason.
Don’t take it personally, just move on with your life.